Let me introduce you to Renee Mohead Davis and Silver Rae Fox (formally known
as Patricia Evans). Renee is a breast cancer survivor, speaker, and consultant
who currently works in the fashion industry as a model and Silver Rae is a model
turned media personality who has her own brand of what she calls Foxology.
With growth in their right hand and empowerment in their left--they know that
authenticity equipped with enthusiasm makes the difference no matter who you are
or what you are do. I asked Renee what does it means to be the “silver fox?"
She said, “I get a lot of attention because of the way I look and it is okay to
accept that--but I am much more than a fashion model--I am a role model.” When
I asked Silver Rae what it means to be endowed with foxology, she replied, "Your
head, heart and spirit have to be in what you do; what you think of yourself
will be the defining factor for most things that happen in your world - good
things come when you realize that you are wonderful and worthy.” In essence,
the way you walk, talk and move in the world demonstrates that you are first
rate. www.reneedavis.com www.silverraefox.com
When I think of a first rate stone-fox, the Queen of Sheba always comes to
mind. She was wise, alluring and very confident. She didn't allow herself be
treated in any manner that was beneath her standards or values. Biblical
scholars believe that even though King Solomon had 300 wives and 700 concubines,
his inspiration for writing the "Song of Songs" was the Queen of Sheba. The
Queen of Sheba knew intimately that even King Solomon with all his wealth and
wisdom needed iron to sharpen his iron. The ancients considered King Solomon
the wisest man in the world, but the Queen of Sheba had to find out for herself.
She had many questions and she wanted to dialogue with this man to find out
what he was really about. There is a gold nugget in finding out what you are
dealing with before you give a man all your goods. He has to be worth it and if
he isn't don't waste your time. Solomon wanted Sheba because she acted like she
was worthy of him, and she was, so he treated her as such. He needed and wanted
someone to connect with on a real basis. He did not want another woman to lay
at his feet--he wanted his equal. Sarah Ban Breathnach talked about how the
Queen of Sheba accomplished what 1000 women couldn't; she knew that there was
something far worse than being alone--it with being with a man who doesn't
deserve you and doesn't know it. The Queen of Sheba was wealthy in her own
right--she didn't need a man to provide for her financially, what she wanted and
needed was a partner of the heart. She wanted to know if the wisest man in the
world knew about giving and receiving gifts of the heart. Symbolically
speaking, if you are a 20 dollar woman then your equal will be a 20 dollar
man--if you are a billion dollar woman then your equal will be a billion dollar
man. But let's put this meeting in perspective, you can't be a 20 dollar woman
and want a billion dollar man--everybody wants to be with their equal-- water
seeks its own level. For example, the 1 dollar man could never make the 20
dollar woman happy. Let’s be clear -- I am not talking about money, I am
talking about something far greater and more valuable than the dollar.
Foxology has to do with being worthy and not settling for less than your
best, because you deserve only the best. Whether it is a career, a partner, or a
new life--get to your level and this will bring contentment. If it is a career,
may it be something you really love. If it is a partner, whether he is a king
or custodian, may he meet your generosity of spirit and may you both be on the
same page emotionally. If it is a new life, may it be rooted in abundance. You
are royalty and foxology is your formula--use it and stand tall. Stand tall in
your true self and your true style. You will attract true relationships on your
true spiritual journey. Stop singing the blues and as Silver Rae Fox would say
“walk worthy." This is Tuesday Talk--I hope you heard me.
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